In their words: Jon Gruden on Jay; Jay Gruden on Jon

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              FILE - In this Aug. 1, 2018, file photo, Oakland Raiders coach Jon Gruden, center, greets James Stone as players stretch during NFL football practice in Napa, Calif. Gruden left "Monday Night Football" to return to the sideline after a decade away. His brother Jay is coach of the Washington Redskins. (AP Photo/Jeff Chiu, File)
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Here’s a quick look at how Jon and Jay Gruden view their relationship, their talents and what it was like growing up Gruden, via their answers during interviews with The Associated Press:

Who did your parents love more when you were growing up?

Jay: “Me. They always told me I was the perfect kid, so I assume it was me.”

Jon: “I was the middle kid, so I got all the hand-me-downs. I’m kind of the forgotten Gruden.”

Who was the better brother?

Jay: “Jon, actually, was a great big brother. Showed me the ropes, as far as my athletic progress from a young kid to a high schooler, to a college kid. He was a big part of that progress. So I owe a lot to him. So I would say he was the better brother.”

Jon: “Jay. Jay was no maintenance. He just laid around and drank Dr Pepper and ate microwave popcorn.”

Who had the messier room?

Jay: “That would be mine, probably. I was always kind of scattered. Sloppy a little bit. I wasn’t quite the go-getter like Jon. Jon was a clean freak.”

Jon: “Probably Jay, because he never came out of his room.”

What is your brother’s hidden talent?

Jay: “He’s unbelievable when it comes to trivia, as far as old college football, basketball, baseball. He knows every lineup ever.”

Jon: “He’s a good golfer. He can crush it. He’s got a great vertical game on the golf course.”

Who is smarter?

Jay: “Jon is definitely smarter. His ACT, SAT scores (were) way higher than mine. He was good in school. Yeah, I’m not very bright. Got that from my dad.”

Jon: “Neither one of us is very smart when it comes to ‘book smart.’ But when it comes to work ethic and knowing our profession, I would say it’s probably a toss-up.”

Who was the better athlete?

Jay: “That would be me. … Played college football, Louisville, Division I. Played Arena Football. Fourth greatest player of all-time in the Arena Football League. You guys can laugh at that if you want to, but I’m proud of that. So, yes, I would say me. I could always beat him in basketball, always a better baseball player.”

Jon: “He’s a better athlete. He’s an all-state quarterback, the all-time leading passer at Louisville at one time. I’m a backup, ham-and-egg Division III quarterback. That’s all I am.”

Who is the better coach?

Jay: “Well, Jon’s won a Super Bowl, so I mean, you can’t argue that. Jon’s obviously got a little more experience and more success. It’s all about winning Super Bowls. He’s got one, I’ve got zero.”

Jon: “You don’t ever want to say you’re better than your brother. He’s probably better than me. He’s won a lot more games than I have. I haven’t won a game in almost 10 years. So I’m going to go with Jay. He’s won championships as a head coach in Arena Football. He won an NFC East title and I think this is the best Redskins team that he’s had.”