Redskins’ Bowen mourns son’s death

Stephen Bowen is trying to adjust to a new team, learn a thick

new playbook and figure out a new life in a new city as a free

agent defensive end signed by the Washington Redskins.

Those are truly mundane facts compared to the burden that

constantly weighs on Bowen’s mind.

On June 28, Bowen and his wife, Tiffany, became the parents of

twins, Skyler and Stephen III. They were born extremely premature,

some four months early.

Skyler died 10 days later. Stephen III remains in a hospital in

Dallas. Tiffany and the Bowens’ 21-month-old daughter, Trinity,

have also stayed behind in the city where Bowen played for five

seasons with the Cowboys.

”Things are a lot better,” Bowen told The Associated Press

following a Redskins practice. ”It’s still hard. I still think

about the son we lost every day. He was just an inspiration for us.

While he was here, he was fighting every day to try to be here for

us. So the least I can do is just work my butt off and try to be

the best football player I can be.”

Bowen said the twins were born at 24 weeks, ”micro preemies”

considered at the cusp of the age of viability for premature

babies. Micro preemies generally weigh a little more than a pound

and face long-term stays in intensive care. A photo of Stephen III

on Tiffany’s Facebook page shows the tiny baby wrapped in a small

white blanket in the hospital, looking no bigger than the gloved

adult hand gently around him.

”He’s doing good,” Bowen said. ”He’s still in the hospital,

but he’s making progress.”

Bowen understandably did not want to go into the details of his

son’s condition, but he is starting to see some light at the end of

the tunnel. When Stephen III is released from the hospital —

perhaps as early as next month — the family will move to


”Hopefully he’ll be here in September, but we’ll see,” Bowen

said. ”If he keeps having the right progress he’s having right


Known for his wide smile and quick sense of humor in Dallas,

Bowen said the long, busy days of training camp help occupy his

mind. His new teammates are also around to lend an ear.

”I talked to him about it,” defensive tackle Barry Cofield

said. ”I’m supporting him, for sure.”

Bowen also made coach Mike Shanahan aware of the situation after

coming to Washington. A free agent at the end of the NFL lockout,

Bowen signed a five-year, $27.5 million contract with the Redskins

two weeks ago.

”I don’t think you can know how he feels unless you’ve been in

his shoes,” the coach said. ”Words can’t express what he and his

family are feeling.”