For A-Rod: Adjusting to normal life 101

A-Rod, we need to talk.

I understand you’ve been going through some tough times —

but it still doesn’t mean you can

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especially not in public. It also doesn’t mean you can hang out at

a Starbucks in Tampa, Fla. looking like the local Wi-Fi

moocher.

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Don’t even get me started on your lack of manners while munching

on some sunflower seeds during your most recent suit-up with the

Charleston RiverDogs.

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It’s clear you’re stuck in a psychological limbo,

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target="_blank">waiting to hear the fate of your already-tainted

baseball career. But regardless of whatever punishment MLB is

about to hand down, you still have to pull yourself together

— because right now, you’re only embarrassing yourself.

As you start to leave the limelight, it’s best you realize that

some things just don’t fly out here in the “real world” —

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over your bed.

Your seemingly uncontrollable narcissism is going to have to go,

too. (I’ll give you a few moments with yourself to make this a bit

easier.)

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What happened, man? You were able to pull off this whole “being

a normal dude” thing a few years ago when you signed on to help

promote the Guitar Hero franchise. Hanging out with a bunch of

guys, playing video games, wearing no pants? Totally normal. (OK,

maybe not that last bit.)

You’ve given us glimpses at your capacity for normalcy in the

past few weeks — like when you shared a pretty adorable photo

of you and your daughter to Instagram. That move just reeks of the

typical Suburban Dad milieu. Do this more often. (Besides, cute

kids are a surefire way to gain sympathy — as well as

affection from the ladies.)

You’ve even mastered the art of the completely banal Instagram

post. We are

so proud.

Just one more snapshot in the endless sea of Starbucks-related

photos littering the Internet. Everything about this is so utterly

uninteresting that it’s almost zen in its triviality — and

for that A-Rod, you deserve a pat on the back. And, although I am

an avid drinker of the unsweetened iced green tea myself, you’ve

got to admit that this is the quintessential mundane Starbucks

order.

All that’s missing from this work of art is an unrelated emoji

or two — I’d go with the winky face or the smiling poop next

time — and you’re well on your way to becoming a bona fide

“normal guy.”

For your next post, might we suggest a bathroom mirror selfie, a

shot of your dinner or a picture of you hanging out with some

friends?

Oh man. Nailed it.

See, A-Rod — we know that deep down, you’re just like us.

Things are looking pretty dismal in your universe these days, so

it’s probably time to starting thinking about embracing the normal

guy within. Go low profile, keep posting pictures of your morning

coffee — and it just might be the best decision you’ll make

all year. (Aside from ditching those centaur portraits, of

course.)