Reported texts do little to support Jonathan Martin's bullying claims
Feb 4, 2014 at 3:18p ET
Incognito, 1/9/2013 18:48: You need to bring 6k in cash! Hooker party on u
Martin, 1/9/2013 19:00: 6k?!
Incognito: 1/9/2013 19:02: Yes
Incognito: 1/9/2013 19:02: Cash
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Incognito: 1/11/2013 13:12: What time u get in?
Martin, 1/11/2013 15:58: Man I just can't justify this Vegas trip with what I've been dealing with recently ... Let me know if I owe you anything for the room
Incognito, 1/11/2013 16:51: It's all good. Let me know if u need anything
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Martin, 1/16/2013 22:54: Hey man, congrats on the Pro Bowl. Forgot to text you earlier
Incognito, 1/16/2013 23:01: Thanks buddy :)
Those brief exchanges between Martin and Incognito gives a small glimpse into many of the more than 1,000 text correspondences between the two players from October 2012 to November 2013 that were obtained by The Big Lead.
A lot of talk about women and partying. Crude comments. Friendly words.
There were even texts showing concern for Martin after the tackle left the Dolphins during the last week of October. Incognito later was suspended for conduct detrimental to the team and missed the final eight games of the '13 season.
The two linemen who have been at the center of an alleged bullying scandal that rocked the Dolphins and the NFL clearly appeared to have been good friends.
Martin, at times, initiated exchanges with Incognito, known among other things for being a jokester who could be as crass as they come. Many times he called Martin the vulgar term for "wimp" when Martin would opt to stay in. Martin steered clear of the name-calling.
NFL special investigator Ted Wells is expected to releases his findings this week about what happened between Martin and Incognito.
Various media outlets previously reported Incognito texts and voicemails containing racial epithets. In the text exchanges, there's vague talk of drug use.
Were the texts often vile and crude? Yes.
Silly and juvenile? Yes.
If Martin had been "dealing with" something, it certainly didn't appear to be personal toward Incognito. The two texted each other in a way one might expect from young athletes blessed with money, fame and ready to conquer the world.
In today's politically correct world, some conduct that has been accepted in certain locker-room/clubhouse environments for a long time certainly needs to stop. If that's a result from the Martin-Incognito scandal, then great.
Hopefully, the controversy also will reinforce that people, especially celebrities such as professional athletes, should watch what they say and do at all times. That might be a bit unfair, but it's also prudent in today's society.
Athletes need to remember they live in the real world and not an immune place where they can say and do what they want without facing penalties.
Was all this the result of Martin being bullied?
Perhaps in Martin's mind, but not really from the outside looking in.